Victoria Monét Is Having Her Moment
This shift toward focusing on happiness has permeated Monét’s professional and personal lives. But that monumental change does not come without putting in the effort, especially when you’re an artist, a
mother, a Black woman, and a member of the LGBTQ+ community. For Monét, self-care has come in many forms over the past two years: making music, getting massages, taking bubble baths, watching comedies, coloring, playing with her daughter, and attending therapy. When I inquire about how she got into therapy, she admits that it wasn’t an easy step to take. “It was harder for me to justify making the time for therapy. I didn’t think I had the time to sit down and talk to somebody. I didn’t think an hour was enough time to sort through my whole life. So I found other things instead of it,” she says. The nudge she needed to finally prioritize her inner peace came from her manager, who point-blank told Monét that she was not going to continue to work with her unless she took her mental health practice seriously. “That is a part of taking yourself seriously,” she recalls.