Buying a vibrator isn’t an easy feat. After all, everyone’s experience with pleasure is completely different, and the descriptions on labels for these devices can sometimes be confusing. Kate Balestrieri, licensed

psychologist and founder of the Modern Intimacy (a platform that discusses the intersection between mental health and sexuality), suggests keeping an open mind when trying to find the right device for you. “Some things may send you over the moon in terms of pleasure, while others may fall flat—and that’s okay,” she says. She goes on to say that each device offers a different weight, texture, size, and movement that provokes stimulation each person feels differently. Her best advice: "Stay curious."

Along with Balestrieri, we tapped multiple experts for their recommendations for the best vibrators for different situations. Read on and find the vibe that works for you.